Hi Justin,
I think that if you have been tuning your toms properly and not muffling them then your drums are already making the great sounds. Often we as drummers don't get to appreciate the sounds of our own drums!
Another factor to consider is that whilst your drumset may sound lively and ringy when it's set up at home, other musicians playing wll completely drown all that out and your kit will sing.
The best thing to do is to make sure the drums are in tune with themselves and each other, if that's balanced, then it's right. I go into it in a little detail in the creative tuning section on http://www.tunadrum.com or my other site www.drumdojo.com
Hope this has been useful
Cheers
Paul
Paul Marshall
January 2007