http://www.torreelectrics.co.uk/acatalog/Dimplex_electric_fire_Obisidan_OBS20_Series_A.html
It may be your fire or not. You didn't say the type. The diagram shows the location of the PCB (Item 15).
For someone who does not know what they are doing, the simplest expedient is to either 1) Ask someone who is competent to look or 2) Test by substitution.
One brief other thought: I believe these controls are infra-red, as opposed to radio. If that is the case, you can test your handset is issuing commands by simply viewing it thru the viewfinder of a digital camera (Camera or phone camera) and operating the remote. If the remote is working you should see the infra red emitter at the end of the remote, lighting up. Try it with a known good remote - say - your TV remote and you'll get the idea.
belp
November 2016