problems with rewire?

please help to stop the nagging from my wife

we have a hoover tv630 tumble dryer. i replaced the relay and removed 4 connectors. 1) double white. 2) orange/blue
3) blue/orange and blue/white i know that number 3) go together side by side as i tapped before i removed it. i did do a wire diagram but my wife has since lost (her fault yet she still nags). on the relay it says (L) (N) (COM) does anybody know which wire goes where thanking you. forever grateful (no longer needing ear plugs !!!!!!!!)