The fuel pump relay gets it's power from the "main engine control" relay via fuse#9 this relay is energised when the ignition is switched on through a diode in the fusebox, with this relay energised it puts power to one side of the fuel pump relay coil, the earth for the coil comes via the engines ECU when it gets a good signal from the immobiliser control.
The main engine control relay is the one below the fuel pump relay.
If you would like a copy of the wiring diagram contact me on nige110162(at symbol)hotmail.co.uk
nigel
February 2012