Your pressure is going above 3bar and the 'safety' valve lifts at 3 bar to allow pressure out, causing your water loss, and a lot of times, dirt gets caught under the seat of the valve, so it keeps passing water.
The cause of the pressure rise is your inital problem, either your expansion vessel has failed and needs replacing or it need charging. Also the safety valve needs to be dismantled and cleaned.
T
April 2008