My beko wme8227w washer. Won't reset?

. After changing the door seal the display on my beko wme 8227w reads 14 mins and the fabric softener symbol flashes, can't reset it with the 3 sec hold reset button. Very occasionally whilst holding the reset and turning the programme control a different display appears and I can do things like alter the temp, spin speed, child lock on or off, but the fabric softener symbol always flashes and machine can't be reset, once powered off after such a display and then re powered, the display always reverts to 14 mins plus softener symbol flashing Any ideas, dave