You should engage the services of an electrician - three way wiring is perhaps too advanced for a beginner.
The two remote switches are Wired L1 to L1 and L2 to L2 with live entering on Com of one switch and exiting on the Com terminal of the other distant switch. In between the two distant switches is what is often called an Intermediate switch (crossover switch) that acts as a polarity reversal switch.
The Intermediate switch interrupts the L1/L1 and L2/L2 wires and has the ability to convert them to L1/L2 and L2/L1 and in this way the light may be operated from any of the three stations.
Wikipedia switch - in a search engine takes you to an article with simple coloured diagrams under the heading Multiway Switching / More than two locations.
Good luck... Take care...
Peccavi
June 2009