You have old wiring which you should consider replacing.
Ignore all colours as in many cases changeover switches were not wired to any standard.
First you need to identify the live connections and feeds to the lights. Working with the mains ON and all lights switched off use a neon screwdriver to identify the live feeds.
Now one at a time turn the lights on and note which lines are now live.
You can work from there or feed back with more information and I'll respond again.
John Errington
September 2008