Oil in water, would indicate a blown gasket somewhere. But where? Which gasket. Difficult to know, some more likely than others, bigish job.
As you are not capable, get it to a garage, get it sorted, sooner the better, You are loosing oil, contaminating the cooling fluid, needs to be seen to. ASAP
SD
December 2012
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