The EGR valve metal is the saucer shaped thing (about 2" in diameter) on top and in the middle of the inlet manifold. It's only held on by a few bolts and there's a piece of small diameter hose connected to it. Just undo the bolts and gently pull off the hose, remove and replace.
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