I have the same prob and Ive only had my car for 2 days! The garage I bought it off said I had to 'bash it'! Have now been told by a car security company called Turnbulls that it will cost £35 plu vat to deactivate it. The it will be useless as will the alarm be. Not a happy girlie!!!!
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