I recently replaced the diaphragm in my toilet and it was a piece of cake. I detached the syphon, opened it up and popped down B&Q (Warehouse) picked one up for £1.28 (incl. Doughnut washer)
What you tend to find is that a lot of home DIY places (eg B&Q, Homebase etc) will try and flog you a complete solution which costs about £30! and Home DIY stores keep very low stocks of individual components. However failing this you can always visit a plumbers merchant!
I admit I was lucky as not all syphons come apart so easily as mine did but to say that its a difficult job without more information is a little hasty at best and at worst misleading! This surely defeats the object of forums like this one. "I suggest that you bite the bullet and call a plumber....my telephone number is" ....yeah right!
Slightly Annoyed
February 2008